Are you in a relationship where you have this strong feeling that your partner isn’t just right for you? You try your possible best to believe anything he or she tells you, and you feel your relationship just don’t isn’t just going right? If you feel this way, I think it’s time you confirm your instinct about him or her.
1. Excuse all the way
When your partner always gives excuse for every single thing they do, He or she claims they don’t call much because of always been busy, and when you experience this, you say to yourself “he is not caring” My dear he or she doesn’t just show lack of concern for you, he doesn’t love you. Get that! If your partner gives you the 24/7 excuse, my dear there is no love there. No matter how busy your partner is and there is love, they will never click the excuse icon!
2. You try to make it work
I tell you! When you are the one always putting your effort in trying to make sure your relationship works and your partner doesn’t even care how the relationship stands, then you should know that you are dating the wrong person.
3. They doesn’t mention you to their family
When your partner doesn’t make attempt to introduce you their family members, then you should know someone is already been introduced. You are just on stand-by as far as I am concerned!.
4. No plans?
When Your partner doesn’t even have a reasonable goal for the relationship not to talk of having plans for how the future will look like, he or she doesn’t like talking of where the relationship stands and where it’s going, and if you ask them were you stand in the relationship, they are fond of saying something unreasonable or they will shy away from your question or they get angry.
This attitude shows that you are dating the wrong person and you need to do something about it.
5. Never shows up for your Memorable Event
Your partner claims you are special, he or she loves and can’t do without you blablabla!! How will you feel when he or she doesn’t show up on the day of your graduation? Or doesn’t show up to celebrate with you should you get a promotion at your work place and most especially birthdays. I know you are asking what if something very important took place, even if something very crucial happened and he or she apologizes, then what happens to other days when he or she does the same thing.
6. Your feelings keeps telling you they are not right person
Does a voice keep telling you that your partner is not real? Or your relationship doesn’t just feel right? Hmm, your instinct must be right, follow it!
7. Finds it hard to introduce You to their friends or Introduces You as “friend” to his friends
I mean who does that? You two fall in love, experience ups and downs, deal with situations together and all your partner does is say “meet my friend” to their friends, Or they won’t even mention you to their friends. Gosh! It hurts dear, because it shows they are not proud of you still and they don’t love or even like you. Such a person can kill.
8. Poor or no Connection
When they find it hard to call or text you or don’t even do any at all but on rare occasions. Connection is one very strong basis of a relationship if it’s not there, then it’s just a “replaytionship”.
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9. You feel You are Single
When you are in a relationship where you feel you are lonely and you feel single, what does that signify to you? It shows how unimportant you are in the relationship. It shows that you are definitely with the wrong person.
10. No care
You are just there, he or she doesn’t care if you have eaten, how your day went, finds it hard checking on you to the extent you call to let them know you still alive. Hmm! That isn’t right if you really want to have a long-lasting relationship.
