One of the things you owe your partner is to give her a good time in bed. Not just a good time, a mind blowing and tear jerking time when they hit the sack with you.
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You can never have too much of a good thing in our opinion. So we’ve created a guide that will ensure the lady in your life even more pleasure in the bedroom.
From the best s*x positions to unexplored erogenous zones, with the help of award-winning erotic journalist and s*xpert, Alix Fox, we let you in on some mind-blowing tricks.
1. Girl on Top
This position allows her to have the most control of her org*sm. She can move as fast or slow as she likes and the depth of the motion is also up to her.
It allows easy access to her clitoris, which means you can help her reach org*sm with your fingers as well.
2. Spooning
This position concentrates on stimulation of the front of the vagina, which is where the most nerves are located –meaning it’s more pleasurable for her.
3. Doggy Style
It’s a great position for the woman because it allows her to have optimal control. This is also a good position for stimulating the G-spot, while still allowing access to her clitoris.
4. Scissors
This move great for clitoral stimulation and because your bodies aren’t against each other there is plenty of room for you to reach down and rub her clitoris.
5. Missionary
It might seem boring, but it’s the nation’s second favourite s*x position with 21% of people polled saying it was their preferred move.
And according to s*x experts, women get the most pleasure out of the standard position than any other.
HOW TO GIVE HER A MULTIPLE ORG*SM
One org*sm is cause for celebration, but a multiple is s*xual ecstasy.
Here’s how to give her the famous repetitive waves of pleasure.
1. Build up the tension
She might feel like she wants to org*sm as soon as possible, but make her wait. Bringing her to the brink repeatedly will cause her arousal to spread throughout her whole body.
When you do eventually let her climax it will be bigger and better than ever. But don’t stop here. After she has org*smed continue to touch her gently until it builds up to a second or third explosion.
“You want her to retain her feelings of overall arousal when her body starts to relax after having the first org*sm,”says Amie Harwick, author of The New S*x Bible for Women.
However, be gentle as she will still be very sensitive after the first org*sm.
2. Test out different erogenous zones
Most women find it easiest to org*sm by massaging the clitoris, but if it’s still sensitive from round one it might be best to know some other areas to focus on.
You could try aiming for the famous G-spot. Doing it Doggy Style is one of the best s*x positions for women and will help her reach the big-O quicker.
“Stimulating the G-spot can produce a climax that feels very different from an org*sm achieved by massaging the clitoris – and it can go on longer, too, delivering wave after wave of pleasure,” said award-winning erotic journalist and s*xpert Alix Fox.
“If you want to explore G-spot sensations for yourself, first you’ll need to know where this particular ‘moan zone’ is.
The G-spot is about 1-2 inches inside the vaginal opening, on the front of the vaginal wall – the bit closest to your bellybutton.
3. Try a new s*x toy
Surprising her with a new s*x toy can really ramp things up in the bedroom and could increase her chances of having a multiple.
Ann Summers has recently released a new range of rechargeable, fully-waterproof toys called Moregasm, and according to Alix, they work in a way that can give women a brand new type of pleasure.
She said: “Moregasm toys harness the power of low frequency vibrations. These pass more easily and more deeply into the body, reaching areas and stimulating places and nerve endings that standard toys don’t usually hit.
“The result? Huge potential for ladies to experience longer, stronger, and new types of org*sm – even if s*x toys haven’t worked for them in the past.”
